Which side do you call the left side ? From sitting on the bike or from head on ?
The left side is the controller side
(on the left when sitting on the bike).
The over/undetightened spokes are my worry now ...Have I made the Problem Worse
As long as your spokes are all tightened evenly it should not be a problem, and any rim offset should have been improved, even if it was only by a small amount.
I tend to tighten my spokes as tight as possible
(without rounding off the flats on the nipples) to prevent them from working loose.
If the distance between the rim and the forks is changing then the wheel is definitely moving in the dropouts. I suspect that the axle nuts and torque arm fixings may need to be tightened more securely to prevent the axle from moving.
You are the only one who is in a position to closely inspect the forks, dropouts and axle fixings to try and locate the actual cause of the problem.
try swapping the "C" washers from one side to the other to see if it affects the offset, as it is possible that one may have been reshaped differently to the other, causing the axle to locate further into one dropout.
You may have to file the dropout slight on one side to allow the axle to go in further to help centre the rim better.
Unfortunately, pictures do not always show things correctly due to differences in distance, perspective and lens distortion. The picture from Golden Motor has not been taken from the ideal position as the rim was not perfectly aligned with the centre of the camera's lens and therefore appears to be more offset than it actually is:
As you can see from the vertical line above, the wheel is leaning slightly to the left in relation to the camera lens, making the rim look like it is offset even more to the left.
It is difficult to compare the photo of your wheel with this photo as your wheel was much closer to the camera, and also has a tyre fitted which obscures more of the hub, making the offset rim less noticeable.
Think I'm going to rough up all the mating surfaces for a better grip
Applying a thin smear of coarse grinding paste on the mating flat surfaces of the torque arms, washers and dropouts can help to prevent any movement when they are properly tightened, as the coarse particles bite into the metal and help to lock the surfaces together.
Alan