I'm happy to say I got some beta software from GM and I was able to program the motor for 36V - my bike works. I don't have to pedal any more! If you are having troubles programming you should definitely get in touch with Golden Motor support. I can't distribute what I have but I do hope it is released very soon, it does not even require the timeout/power-on dance to connect.
I'm running the motor at 15A for now and after my 18km commute I have around half of my 8Ah battery left though it is hard to tell because the LEDs are not a very precise measurement. I charge the battery during the day so it always has plenty of range.
Unfortunately my bike frame is not designed to use a derailleur at all so I am going to need to make a hanger or modify a derailleur hanger designed for some other bike. With only the supplied 6-speed cassette - and I strongly advise everyone who orders to instead get the 7-speed - I can only select one cog, by using a chain that is exactly the right length - if you like, it's a single-speed with a cassette. I easily exceed the speed that I can pedal using the motor, and I would prefer to be able to keep the pedals engaged with the drive even at top motor speed. With the hanger made and the addition of a cheapish derailleur and shifter this will be a very good commuter bike and also not a complete disaster if I lose power for whatever reason.
The reason I recommend the 7-speed cassette is that there are a few 7/8 speed derailleurs available for under $20 from various online stores - but I saw none intended for 6 at all, and using a derailleur on a narrower cassette may introduce problems if the restricting screws cannot restrict the range of the derailleur to the narrow range correctly. Also there are very limited options for 6-speed shifters - twist only as far as I can tell, no triggers. There are definitely 6-speed setups around but they tend to be fitted to kids' bikes rather than available as spares via retail.
Apart from the gear modifications I need to do two other things - one is to attach microswitches to my brake levers to enable motor cutoff/regenerative braking. I am not able to use the supplied cable brake levers because I have 160mm hydraulic disc brakes front and rear. With the extra weight of the motor and battery I would not give these up, and I don't know how anyone rides rim brakes in the wet on an electric bike, with a bag or two and rider that must be well over 100kg moving at 30km/h - it certainly is for me. I have ridden another eBike with a smallish 250W motor, no bags, and the rim brakes are just not strong enough especially with levers that can be generously described as mediocre.
The last job is to tidy up the wiring harness. As supplied the cable is too long, has connections that I will never use (horn etc.) and uses connectors that I don't exactly trust. I'm looking into IP67-rated connectors and will be rewiring for neater appearance and waterproofing. I really do wish the GM controller was re-wireable but the whole thing appears to be potted in resin, I will need to cut off the cable fairly close to the controller and use a better connector to mate the whole thing to my new wiring harness.