Thanks for the reply,
I have measured my axle with a Caliper and got a 14mm, don't know the thread type becuse don't have the tools for that right now(could guess it is 1.5mm).
By the way, I had measured another motor axle diameter and got 14mm.
Basically like you wrote: "Motorized hubs generally use a larger axle and larger nuts to help withstand the torque which they generate."
This sucks, No one makes a secure solution for that kind of an axle
all "pitlock" and "pinhead" got for solid axle is 10mm nuts.
Where do I get(online) that kind of nuts(as in the picture)?